Journal
On mental load, clarity, and family life.

Asynq Family is now Familia
Asynq Family is becoming Familia and opening more broadly, with unlimited manual tasks and plans on the Free plan.

Familia has an MCP server for AI assistants
Familia can connect to MCP-compatible assistants so authorized tools can work with family tasks, plans, attachments, and availability.

What we actually use Familia for
A practical look at how one family uses Familia for tasks, agreements, plans, events, shopping, and shared clarity.

Why “I told you already” keeps happening
Most tension is not about intention. It is what happens when memory becomes a private system.

Love doesn’t scale. Systems do.
Care is real, but daily logistics still need structure when life gets busy.

Why reminders feel personal
Without shared clarity, practical follow-ups can quickly sound like criticism.